How to Love

·         Say it. When you say the words "I Love You", they should carry with them the desire to show someone that you love them, not what you simply want to feel. When you say it, make sure you really mean it and are willing to do anything for that special person.

·         Empathize. Put yourself in someone else's shoes. Rather than impose your own expectations or attempt to control them, to understand how they feel, where they come from, and who they are. Realize how they could also love you back just as well.

·         Love unconditionally. If you cannot love another person without attaching stipulations, then it is not love at all, but deep-seated opportunism (one who makes the most of an advantage, often unmindful of others). If your interest is not in the other person as such, but rather in how that person can enhance your experience of life, then it is not unconditional. If you have no intention of improving that person’s life, or allowing that person to be themselves and accepting them as they are, and not who you want them to be, then you are not striving to love them unconditionally.

·         Expect nothing in return. That doesn't mean you should allow someone to mistreat or undervalue you. It means that giving love does not guarantee receiving love. Try loving just for the sake of love. Realize that someone may have a different way of showing his or her love for you; do not expect to be loved back in exactly the same way.

·    Realize it can be lost. If you realize that you can lose the one you love, then you have a greater   appreciation of what you have. Think how lucky you are to have someone to love. Don't make an idol of the person you love. This will place them under undue pressure and will likely result in you losing them.

• ·        Never stop loving. Even if you have been hurt before you should not stop giving love

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Single lady

10 Advantages Of Being A Single Woman
1. Your Time Is Your Own
2. Your Money Is Your Own
3 .Get to Know Yourself
4. Get to Know Your Friends
5. Get to Know Your Family
6. Career Freedom
7. Travel
8. Seeing Shows
9 .Decide What You Want in a Partner
10.Make Your Life Anything You Want It to Be

How to Cope With a Broken Heart

Instructions

First,

Realize that you're not alone. It might feel like the end of the world, but there are people who want to support you and who understand your pain. So take a deep breath and tell yourself, "I will make it through this difficult time."

Second,

Find as many friends and family members as you can to help you deal. Let them know what's going on and that you really need them to be there just to listen when you feel like talking about your emotions. Pick people who are close to you, and if you can't find anyone, then make some new friends. The Internet has plenty of chat rooms for people who are heartbroken; just make sure you're looking for friends right now and not a rebound relationship. You can find people to talk to, but never give away personal information online.

Third,

Understand that journaling is also a great way to express your emotions. For a while you will want to talk about your feelings often, whether to others or just writing in your journal. After about four to six weeks, it's time to start finding ways to distract yourself from the pain; you've suffered long enough.

Fourth,

Get outside and get some fresh air, no matter how badly you feel like just lying in bed and moping. Go for a walk or visit a friend you haven't seen in a while. Try to think of some of your favorite hobbies, things that make you happy even when you're at your worst. Spend your free time pursuing them. This is a great time to do all those things you never had a chance to do before. Maybe your house really needs cleaning, or you've always meant to try painting, or you want to write that award-winning novel that's been in your head for years. These are great distractions, and they are good for you, too.

Fifth,

Remember to take care of your body. This is a time to be kind to yourself, not put yourself down. Tell yourself that you are worth it, and if you don't believe that, then have someone else tell you until you do. Take care of your body, and once you are ready to face the world again, you'll be in great shape. Hopefully, these healthy habits will follow you even after you're up and at it again.

Source: http://www.ehow.com/how_2308037_cope-broken-heart.html

Heart says..

My heart say..
"Love doesn’t always end the way we want it to. But it always ends the way it is supposed to. If one love is lost, it only means that another one, sometimes better…sometimes not, but always, another love is waiting for you just around the corner.
Always look for the bright side.
You just have to move a few things around."

Heart's lesson for the DAY

The pursuit of happiness is a matter of choice...it is a positive attitude we consciously choose to express. It is not a gift that gets delivered to our doorstep each morning, nor does it come through the window. And I am certain that our circumstances are just a small part of what makes us joyful. If we wait for them to get just right, we will never find lasting joy.

The pursuit of happiness is an inward journey. Our minds are like programs, awaiting the code that will determine behaviors; like bank vaults awaiting our deposits. If we regularly deposit positive, encouraging, and uplifting thoughts, if we continue to bite our lips just before we begin to grumble and complain, if we shoot down that seemingly harmless negative thought as it germinates, we will find that there is much to rejoice about.

May we live our lives with a HaPpY HeArT.

Brother

i just want God for giving me brother whose become supportive to me.

This past days, i thought he doesn't  care about me  but he's not.

When i was young, my brothers acted like they didn't care,
but I always knew they looked out for me and were there!

Thank You Bother!

I know you have lot of sacrifices for us.

song of my heart

 PAIN IN MY HEART

Here I am alone in this empty room,
And let my mind just fly you to the end.
Thoughts of you still linger in my memory
Wondering why my life is not that fair.

I could still recall, those memories of you,
The joy and all your laughter,
The love that we've been through.
Oh I can't believe, you're gone...

I don't want to remember,
The things we used to do,
All the things that remind me of you.
I don't want to hear those songs,
Those songs we used to sing,
'Cause I don't wanna feel the pain in my heart

Talkin' to my self, for reasons I can't find.
Findin' out why everything went wrong.
Tears fallin' down on my cheeks,
That I've been tryin' to hold.
I just dunno if I could still go on.

I wanted you to stay,
The tears began to show,
You said you care for me,
But then you have to go
And now I know, you're gone.

I don't want to remember,
The things we used to do,
All the things that remind me of you.
I don't want to hear those songs,
Those songs we used to sing,
'Cause I don't wanna feel the pain in my heart

I just can't believe, you're gone...

I don't want to remember,
The things we used to do,
All the things that remind me of you.
I don't want to hear those songs,
Those songs we used to sing,
'Cause I don't wanna feel the pain in my heart,

And I don't want to remember,
The things we used to do,
All the things that remind me of you.
I don't want to hear those songs,
Those songs we used to sing,
'Cause I don't wanna feel the pain in my heart

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